Would you hypnotize me over Skype for free?

In my formative years, I would have. As much as I would like to give my time freely, I have to place value on it. This is what I do for work; and I rely on it to pay my rent.

My rates are reasonable, though. If you’d like to schedule an appointment with me, see my appointment scheduler.

Would you do a video for…?

I appreciate the suggestion. If you would like to commission that video, I will put it on my to-do list.

At times I do public videos of my own accord, and if I really like a suggestion, I may run with it anyway.

Hi! Want to chat?

There are many activities that compete for my time and attention. I’m very much a doer, and if I have to make the choice, I prefer doing to chatting. I like to do things with others.

I don’t mean to be asshole by implying I don’t want to chat with you. I do, when the conversation is deep. If you want that and have something to offer, then yes, I’d be happy to talk. Open the discussion with a topic and jump right in! There’s no need to greet me with a hello, or to make small talk; in fact, I appreciate the directness.

If you’re interested in anything business-related, it’s best to send me an e-mail. That will get my attention faster than a message elsewhere.

Did you get my greeting notification on hypnosisforguys?

Yes, I most certainly did. I appreciate it.

Unfortunately, I don’t have time to respond to all the ones I receive. So, if you’d like to take the interaction further and deeper, then feel free to approach me on Skype. Just jump right in.

Are you single? Are you looking for a relationship?

I’m single, and I love it! No, I’m not looking for a long-term relationship at the moment. There are guys I have over and have fun with, but there’s no commitment, nor is the relationship exclusionary to other guys. That’s not to say it can’t change in the future, but that’s where I want to be right now.

What do you like to do with hypnosis?

First and foremost, if we’re talking about what I like, the most important thing is the modality; whether it’s in-person or not. Experiencing hypnosis in-person is like having a taste of ambrosia. Once you do it, you won’t want to revert to on-line.

In terms of the induction, I like using fixed-eye inductions, using pocket watches or my eyes. I like confusion, speed, and covert inductions. In terms of suggestions, I enjoy typical street or stage suggestions: arm levitation, catalepsy, animal transformations, and amnesia. Of course, I also like straight-up domination.

That may sound worrisome to some of you who are looking for a more professional touch, but you’ll just have to believe me when I say that my personal enjoyment of hypnosis is something I can very easily separate from my professional work.

How did you get into hypnosis?

Cartoons did it to me. In most of the cartoon depictions I saw while growing up, a male character hypnotized another male character to establish a form of mind control or dominance over him.

As a young man coming to grips with my sexuality, I had fantasies about being intimate with other boys my age, even though I didn’t understand why. I had a poor sex education, and didn’t know what “gay” even meant in my single-digit years, even as I got accused of it. I grew up in a time and place when it was more than merely frowned upon—you could get your ass kicked for being gay. So, I believe the hypnofetish formed as a way to bridge my fantasies with my reality. I imagined hypnotizing other boys my age to like me, and after many repetitions, that fantasy became ingrained in my sexuality.

Interestingly enough, I actually did hypnotize other boys to like me, far before I hit puberty. I was checking out books in the library on hypnosis and practicing it on schoolmates as a kid in my late single-digit years. I’m sure that it all looked like innocent fun to a bystander—even though it is clear to me now that something much more profound was brewing in my subconscious. I didn’t make the connection of these early childhood events to my sexual fetish until much later.

I believe cartoons do it to us all.